Everybody has a part of her body that she doesn’t like, but I’ve stopped complaining about mine because I don’t want to critique nature’s handiwork… My job is simply to allow the light to shine out of the masterpiece.
~ Alfre Woodard
If Everything IS Energy and it is – your body is the place the Soul calls home – it hears every word you speak and every thought you think – you will have this body the rest of your life – why make it a battle ground – why not love it the way it is??
Are you letting your light shine or hiding in the darkness – by darkness I mean self judgments, criticism, lies about not being good enough, think enough etc……….
We are all like Snowflakes – each one is different, unique and beautiful – why try to be like someone else – that is not why we are here!!
Remember who you are!!
Have Emotional eating going on? Gain access to a powerful and effective way of accelerating your personal awakening by raising your confidence and connecting with more of YOU. 21 Days Food & You!
https://jodiburke.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/03/2018-03-29_0001.jpg18931200adminhttps://jodiburke.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/06/JB-logo-new3.pngadmin2018-03-29 17:06:412018-03-29 17:07:58Body Love
“All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth.” ― Friedrich Nietzsche
“There are things known and there are things unknown, and in between are the doors of perception.” ― Aldous Huxley
“Every man takes the limits of his own field of vision for the limits of the world.” ― Arthur Schopenhauer
“Closed in a room, my imagination becomes the universe, and the rest of the world is missing out.” ― Criss Jami
How do you see the world? How do you see yourself? Your body? Is it the truth or it is your point of view? Which doesn’t mean it’s true – we are all programmed by the age of 7 ( Dr Bruce Lipton – Honeymoon Effect) – your outer world is a reflection of your inner world – don’t be afraid to open up to other possibilities – nothing is true unless your give it your attention – Abraham Hicks – as Everything IS Energy!!
You might have some old outdated programs, patterns or points of views – if it’s not from Love then it’s probably a BFFL!! (big fat fucking lie!!).
PS – The Best Time to Start a New Relationship With Food is Now! Get The Support You Need to Make a permanent change ====> 21 Days Food & You
To Fall in Love with Yourself is the first secret to Happiness!
The drug of choice for many, especially women, is food.
Along with that drug often comes constant self criticizing, loathing, judging and obsessing about what one ate, didn’t eat, body size, shape and imperfections – no matter how small they may seem, it always gets distorted.
Yes, media, advertising, possibly parents, teachers, friends or siblings may play a role in somehow reminding us that we aren’t good enough the way we are IF we buy into it and believe it.
The start of De-Programming the mental Self Talk
It’s a disorder gone rampant, with over 91% of women disliking their bodies and themselves, many to an extreme. 80% of 13 yr old Canadian girls have been on a diet already and 95% of people with an eating disorder are between the ages of 12 – 25 yrs.
I know – I’ve been one of them.
Self Talk is Better – There is NOW Awareness of the Self Abuse Programming
The mental, emotional and often times physical bondage is excruciating – yet many hide it well from others. The wires around the head represent the mental constructs of the programs, self talk and beliefs – none of which are self loving.
Stuffing down emotions, or better yet, not feeling them at all.
We often feel alone, fragmented and on our own keeping things bottled up inside.
We are caught in a vicious cycle of self depreciating, devaluing, loathing and often times self abusive – until we decide enough!!
Starting to Truly See the Lies We’ve Been Telling Ourselves!!!
Only 5 % of women naturally have the body type portrayed by women in the media and for which the other 91% are trying to compete, yet we continue to strive for something that truly is not the ‘norm.’
We aren’t good enough the way we are is the constant reminder.
The other 4% don’t have tv, internet or magazines and therefore really, they are the free ones.
If we’re going to buy into stories, why not buy into self empowering ones?
Who truly decided what beauty is?
Waking Up to the Truth of Who You Are (Who I AM!!)
We all have a story to tell – we’re trying to make it a similar to one another and that is the start of the disconnect.
We are born and should be able to be our authentic selves and creatively express who we truly be through our gifts – not by trying to be like one another.
With the start of the disconnect we compare, judge, shut down and buy into someone else’s ideas of beauty and what we should look like and we start our own mantra of not being good enough.
Yet we are like snowflakes – each individually designed, beautiful and unique.
Some of us, remembering that, have broken free from that bondage – most of it being self imposed and mental self talk.
We decided that our lives weren’t about fighting our bodies, hating our bodies or ourselves or spending 95% of our time worrying about a few pounds or what we did / did not eat.
Cause it’s really not about food.
There were too many other beautiful, amazing things to see, feel, be and do in this lifetime.
That is the start of removing the bondage – you allow yourself to feel – ALL and reprogram the self talk.
The one thing that separates a food / body obsessive addiction is you have to learn to live with both, unlike most other addictions.
When one can truly do that – accept and love what is – then the bondage is gone and nothing is more freeing than that.
I know I am one of them!
True Freedom from Self Imposed Limitations & Abuse
Women Wanted who Want to Break Free – Raw, Naked and Beautiful Project – Real, Authentic and Truthful – Beauty!.
This will become a book and gallery exhibitions – I am currently in the Ajijic Mexico area but will be travelling this year and will be posting where I will be – Please contact me if you would like a session!!
It’s been awhile since I’ve posted any photos of Mexico.
Color Blankets at the Market
As I wander around some small villages and towns were is so much to see!
I have found Mexicans to be quite friendly, happy and even though some are very poor still smile and say Good Morning!!
Guys enjoying a Saturday
No matter where we are in the world we all have our own struggles – yet on Sundays you can go to any park or centre square and it’s full of people enjoying life and living.
Walking to and from the market
A lot of markets with fresh foods are in Mexico – yet processed crap and Coca-Cola have become popular creating much obesity in Mexico – so sad to see as their diet outside of that is quite healthy!
Stores are different than in North America – not in the cities but in towns and villages this is quite common.
2 Women cooking outside
Many outside and roadside ‘restaurants’!!
Older man selling his stuff at the market
Many street dogs – who can be afraid of humans – once they trust you they love you. There are some great ‘Gringo’s helping dogs get fixed and find homes in North America – if you want to adopt a dog – there are some waiting for a good home!
Common scene of dogs taking it easy in the heat
What I love most so far of being in Mexico besides the sun and warmth is the food, ease, friendly people and it just seems so much freer and less stress than in North America – not for everyone but for some of us it’s great!!
https://jodiburke.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/11/2017-11-09_0004.jpg8071200adminhttps://jodiburke.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/06/JB-logo-new3.pngadmin2017-11-10 00:32:442018-02-28 09:50:15Step Away from the Mean Voice
If you love the vibe here then Lets Stay Connected
Get the latest content first plus free access to The first 3 Chapters of A Story of Our Souls.